#discourse dni

[historyinclusionist]

History Inclusionist

An "Inclusionist" who believes that identities which are 1) shown to be supported in the community's history 2) are harmless personal identities that don't pose harm to others are valid and should be included in their communities.

Overall:

"History Inclusionism" refers to being inclusive of personal identities based on the identity being:

A self affirmed personal identity (locatable only within a person's interaction with and relations to the world around you)

Historically shown to be included in an identity subculture (Such as in a notable number of personal accounts, poems, zines, books, or other media from a subculture)

Shown to be non harmful to other identities or persons (Such as in more than one professional study)

Examples: - Different studies over human history have concluded that being raised by gay parents doesn't cause inherent harm to children. Therefore, gay relationships are provably shown to be non harmful. They are included here. - Different self-reports, comics, zines, and other writings from the past 60 years mention male lesbians, bi lesbians, and lesbians in relationships with men. Therefore, it is historically shown to be included in lesbian culture, and is included here. - Studies, reports, and other examinations by professionals over the course of human history have come to the conclusion that minors in relationships with adults cannot properly consent and are harmed by those "relationships." Therefore, personal identities that try to justify these "relationships" are not included here.

"Personal Identity"?

"Personal Identity" is a purposefully broad term meant to apply to most self-affirmed forms of identification (plurality status, orientation, gender, etc).

Being a History Inclusionist means that you are in complete support of the following personal identities:

Plurality which does not attribute its origins to trauma

Lesbians who are also male / Gay men who are also female

Lesbians who are also mspec (bi, pan, poly, etc) / Gay men who are also mspec

Transgender / nonbinary people who don't experience dysphoria or only feel euphoria

Nonbinary genders, including xenogenders / nonbinary genders that are "atypical" (based on fictional characters, highly specific, based on animals, etc)

"Atypical" relationship formats such as polyamorous relationships, relationship anarchy, kink-focused relationships, etc (Or generally any other form of relationship between two or more consenting people that would not fall under anything on the list below this)

Gender presentations which conflict with and/or defy the expected norm (Women who use he/him pronouns, men who present feminine, etc)

Being a History Inclusionist means that you absolutely do not tolerate or support the following:

Acting on or encouraging attraction to children as an adult (Ped*philia)

Acting on, encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to one's family members (Inc*st)

Acting on or encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to animals (Z*ophilia)

TransID/TransX communities, the idea that someone can transition into or identify as an age, disorder, or condition they physically are not or do not have (transrace/diarace/trace, transabled/transdisorder/'transplural'/transautistic, and so on)

Arguing with other members of the LGBT community over who is allowed to use derogatory words (Q-eer, f-ggot, d-ke, and so on)

Tagging: @mogai-sunflowers @neopronouns @radiomogai

If you're interested in reading more about why I consider XYZ a good faith thing and why I don't consider XYZ the same, I made a Carrd! 📖🏳️‍🌈

[all-that-devours]

ID — programmed personality .

?: A what now? -- A "programmed personality" does not literally mean a programmed personality nor does it refer to things like alters or etc, it refers to making a version of yourself you want to become, then over time molding yourself into that desired version of yourself. It's called "programmed" because you created it, kind of like how you "create" when programming/coding something. [definition wording may change I suck at wording.]

?: Why is it called a "ID"? -- Because there isn't a real term for it, so ID which stands for identity is the closest you get. "I ID as/with this."

?: Why does it need a flag? -- For fun and whimsy. It's really not that deep, there's flags for all sorts of "useless" and non-LGBTQ+ stuff out there.

?: Flag stripe meanings? -- None, I just messed around. Hoe life or no life.

Anyone can use, No DNI. ALT flags allowed/welcome.

Possible advice for said ID: link

[cheesecake-the-chicken]

i’ve been doing some more thinking and i realized when i wear my dark grey tights it looks like i have birdy legs :0 i could also sew myself a pointy black covid mask to look like a beak, and maybe i could also wear a hair accessory to feel like i have a crest? maybe a bow or a bandana,,

i also really want to grow out my nails so they’re nice and pointy :> i just gotta figure out how to grow them in a healthy way

i could even figure out a way to have some kind of tail accessory,, i’ve yet to see too much about gear for birdkin since it’s usually tails/ears/etc for canine and feline kin (NOT HATING AT ALL maybe i’m just a little jealous lmao /lh)

[rotkeres]

Queer pixels! [ + Bonus Horror Queer pixel! ]

[officials-of-hell]

Things I think about as a trans masc lesbian is how beautiful my relationship with my partner is. How many do not understand it, but it’s beautiful none the less. It makes sense to us, and that’s what matters. Our love is beautifully sapphic and we have that sense of loving each other as women while our gender leans more masculine.

The joys of being a multi gendered person are endless. My partner is my handsome wife and I am his. We are both the sun and the moon simultaneously.

I truly wish others could experience our joy.

[demonfail]

Lesbimasc

Hey guys new term. I call it lesbimasc. This is a term to describe lesbians who have a connection to masculinity to the point of it affecting their gender. It's similar to the term lesboy but has no connection to being a 100% binary man. I know lesboy is a thing I know I KNOWWW. It's just that some lesbians dont want to associate with that label but still relate to it so this is a thing.

Color Meanings in Order: Light Teal - Butch and Transmasculine Lesbians Darker Teal - All lesbians who call themselves men but are not fully binary men. Dark-Ish Blue - Transfeminine butches and intersex lesbians who wish to use this label Navy Blue - Solidarity in masculine lesbianism Purple - Boydykes, transsexual butches, and the history of those identities. Lavender - Genderfluid, Multigender, and Boygirl lesbians

Light Lavender - Nonbinary, Gender Non-Conforming and Genderqueer lesbians Feel free to use this I dont really care that much. Just know a neutral lesboy/m-spec lesbian made it.

[gods-light]

I'm not going to say anything for or against Kira in this post, but can I just say that the people behind all of those Kira fansites are so fucking talented? I was looking through some of them today during work and the graphics are marvelously done. Even the originals still hold up. They're so intricate and unique that you can tell how much care they put into each pixel.

Wow, I never thought I'd be praising the art from fansites for a mass murderer... But still, I appreciate the creative visions.

[beetlejuiceearrings]

Preface for the post: original transracial meaning: Transracial adoption, placing a child of one racial or ethnic group with adoptive parents of another racial or ethnic group. Original meaning of xenophobia: dislike of or prejudice against people from other countries. I suppose xenogender users and I do not support people who use transracial for any other meaning than the one listed.

I feel so bad for people that who are actually transracial and had the term stolen from them. People need to stop stealing words without doing any research of what it could've meant before and just changing them; like people using xenophobic to refer to xenogenders. Before you use a word, do your research. I support actual transracial people using the word for its original meaning, not "transitioning from one race to another," and I support xenogenders but please do not use xenophobia to refer to xenogenders.

(Reblogs appreciated, I want more people to know about this kinda stuff)

[thegirlmirage]

My queers, we really need to put the "no men" thing away. Men are not inherently bad. There are queer men. There are questioning men. There's men that are just plain cool. Denying these men a space at our table is not helping - except the TERFs. I just came off the back of reading a transphobe gleeful rant about the need to have pride without men - They of course mean me. This kind of stuff is damaging to me and I really need us all to take a step back and maybe kill this "men dni, men not allowed" stuff. What you mean is "no men who are going to do mean stuff to me." And frankly those men won't give a shit about that kind of boundary.

But I promise you there's a fleet of good honest men who will see that and be sad they're not allowed in your version of queer spaces.

PATRIARCHY is what you hate. Dni Patriarchs.

[paimonthearchivist2]

i've been on this website for almost 10 years. all queer discourse looks like this:

hello fellow queers, don't you just hate those [queer subgroup] trying to harm us [different queer subgroup, "real queers" implied] by [discussing their experiences], which is [bigotry toward queer subgroup 2]. these [fascist dogwhistle] want to [fascist scapegoat rhetoric], because [identity phrenology]. clearly, we must destroy these [fascist dogwhistle, implied queer subgroup 1] because they are a threat to [queer subgroup 2] and queer people as a whole!

[acelacealex]

I'm going to say it again

Cis Heteromantic Asexuals are Queer.

Cis Aromantic Heterosexuals are Queer.

If you are Ace or Aro you do not need another signifier to be Queer full stop.

[cheesecake-the-chicken]

any advice for being therian with dissociation/depersonalization?

so i realized very recently that i'm otherkin and therian through an IRL friend, and it's my understanding that many therians have "phantom limbs". i think it's really cool and i really want to identify more with it and my animal identity but i'm really worried it'll make my dissociation worse. i have PTSD and i already struggle with perceiving my body as non-human (in a bad way), and i also happen to have non-wing related psychosomatic pain ^^'

i know it's different for everyone, but personally i do want to identify at least partially as human someday for my health. i'm just hoping to get some advice on how to go about therianthropy in a healthy way, so my DMs are open! this community seems really awesome and accepting and i really hope to participate :3

[internally-weird]

some anti on tiktok: hey guys just so you know 🌺💞 is a proshit combo for mom x daughter, 🐺🍡 means adult x child and 🦷🧠 is cannibalism kink!!

other antis in the comments: omg thank you!! now i know who to block

proshippers who have never seen those combos in their lives: what

[woodmain]

A reminder: ship discourse is NOT allowed on this account. This is my page in the internet and I don't want to see anyone asking "what do you think about all that".

I simply don't think, thank you. I care only about MY otps. Not others. Dont like my content? Block button is riiiiight here. I also dont want here anyone who wishes other ppl to die or smth. I'm just a random person who wants to enjoy their things.

[anti-endo-help]

you are not a system without trauma.

your system did not form for any reason other than trauma.

"non-traumagenic" isn't a thing.

"traumaendo" isn't a thing.

trauma survivors shouldn't have to clarify that they're "traumagenic" because people want to roleplay on the internet.

go fuck yourself if you think that "endos" are valid. my trauma isn't a label you can wear.

you can not be a system without trauma.

you can not be a system without trauma.

you can not be a system without trauma.

[ID: STOP! this blog is a strictly anti-endo space! pro-endos and endo neutrals, shoo! shoo shoo!]

[gregoriahlover]

anti 1: look at that guy, shipping incest. isn’t that weird? i sure hope he doesn’t have a sibling at home 🤢

anti 2: yeah! i’m so relieved that you agree with me. it seems like everyone condones and glorifies incest these days

anti 1: awesome! i would never even think about participating in the glorification of illegal and immoral actions. ew!

anti 2: you’re cool. let’s go play military propaganda game where you shoot each other with heavy weapons and bombs. modern warfare or black ops?

anti 1: doesn’t matter to me either way! at least neither of them glorifies literal illegal activity which ruins lives and triggers traumatized people :p